I was just looking for ring bearer pillow options because I want to go out and buy the fabric for it tomorrow. In my search for the perfect pillow, I stumbled across this one. Ed is a HUGE Cubs fan and would probably die if we did this at our wedding. How about we don't do this but say we did!
Whew! Is it just me or did Christmas go by fast!!!! It's almost a blur to me now. Ed and I had our first Christmas a week before the "Real Christmas" with his family in Eau Claire. Ed and I made a delicious dinner for everyone: Pesto Manicotti with Spinach, along with bread, and salad. Let's just say it was a true crowd pleaser! Yum! For dessert I made White Chocolate Raspberry Cheesecake. Actually, it was more like Oreo cheesecake. When I was making it, I accidentally forgot to add the eggs, so I just dumped out the cheesecake, Oreo crust and all, and added the eggs. Then I had to make another crust. I used a WHOLE package of cookies in this thing! So tasty though!
Here's my future family:
My Miller men all got matching blue/plaid pajama bottoms. I thought Ed and his brother David were just precious the morning after we opened presents. They had on matching outfits! Now don't they look like they shared the womb?
I went to Milwaukee the week before Christmas to spend a little time with Ed. We had to order our Christmas present: a queen sized mattress! (We got bedding from my parent's, picture to come later). There is this adorable house across from Ed's apartment. Someday I hope we can have a house this color. They even decorate their little tree out front.
We spent Christmas Eve and Christmas day with my family in Madison. My mom made her traditional lasagna and we ate them on her precious Christmas tree plates. Ed and I actually got my mom two more plates so she would have a set of six so everyone can eat together. We thought we'd be sneaky and add the new plates in the china cabnet so my mom would notice when she got them out to wash them. We even put a card on top! My mom was totally oblivious to her little present. Ed and I finally said something and then the light bulb went off!
As my family knows, I just can't resist a good picture in front of the Christmas tree this time of year. So, I had my dad take a couple of Ed and I in front of our REAL tree. (Ed comes from a fake tree family.... but I've decided that we are going to be real tree people once we're married).
This year we did our presents differently. Andrew, my brother, was spending Christmas eve with his girlfriend, and wasn't going to be at our house to open presents. So, we loaded up Santa's sleigh and brought all the presents to my grandma's house. We had a fest that rivaled Thanksgiving. Grandma made a delicious pork roast, mashed potatoes, gravy, tons of veggies, and the list goes on and on. It was soooo good! I felt like a beached whale! AND we had banana cream pie and grasshopper pie for dessert! My grandma makes the best pies - hands down!
Opening presents was like a free-for-all. We had to open them quick because we had to call England and talk to my family over there. Nicole and I got matching footie pajamas with Sock Monkey feet (oh, and Andrew got Ed Civ4 and he just loves it!):
And here's my Benz family picture for this year:
On our way back to Ed's house, we stopped downtown and walked in this little park. All the trees had lights on them. It was just to beautiful for us to simply drive by and look. It was a little chili out and I'd forgotten my gloves at Grandma's house. Ed let me wear his gloves, but they are so big on my hands, making it tricky to take pictures. But, here's what we've got:
Like I said earlier, Ed and I decided to buy a mattress for Christmas. It's a very practical gift in our opinion. Plus, Ed's old mattress was SUPER old - at least 45 years. Hopefully he sleeps much better now! ;- ) About the bedding, I found it on super sale at Target. I just love saving money! Now all we need is a headboard and a side table.
I'm looking forward to January very much! We have so much wedding planning to do, and I'm hoping that we can get most, if not all, of it done next month. June 4th will be here before we know it.
So I was looking at flower girl dresses this afternoon instead of studying for a final that I have tomorrow morning (and I'm sure my grade will reflect that...). There are sooo many CUTE dresses out there. I have no idea how we're ever going to pick one!
Our flower girl is simply adorable too! She has been practicing since she found out she was going to be a flower girl! How precious! I have a picture of her out in her backyard 'practicing' for the big. She wants us to get married very soon because she just can't wait! (That makes two of us!!!) I'm very happy to have her as our flower girl! She is my cousin's daughter, and I was a bridesmaid when my cousin was married, making it all the more special.
Now, this is the dress that I just L-O-V-E! Pink is one of the accent colors in our wedding, and there are little daisies on the dress. What a perfect dress for a little princess!
I think it's a natural girl instinct to like every single dress that you see, like this (LOVE the shoes):
And this one is cute as well (I actually think this is my favorite) :
Oh, and this too:
For this very reason Ed and I have decided to have different acts on our wedding day; sort of like in a play. I can start out wearing the dress I've already bought, then change into something else for pictures, and then something else for the reception. Or heck! Why don't we just change every hour to make it easier? This also saves Ed the hassle of what he should wear to the wedding. He can start with something I've picked, and then move on into unchartered fashion territory (like athletic pants with brown shoes- please see picture below: Ed insists that these two clothing items match - I think not!). I love you but this just doesn't work together...
This way we can just keep changing things up! AND our flower girl too! How will I/we ever pick a dress? Please comment!
Wow! What a week full of my crazy family, Ed's family, turkey, babies, and ENGAGEMENTS! Getting engaged must be the new trend! My longtime roommate got engaged last Tuesday night, and this past Sunday Ed's sister got her ring too! Congratulations to both them and their other halves! I love you all!
Oh, and I just happen to be in both of their weddings! Although, I will be the "matron" of honor, not the "maid" of honor. I must be getting old....
I realized today that we are getting married in LESS THAN 200 DAYS!
Wow! I can't believe that! Technically, it's 199 days, but whose counting? Normally I'm not a countdown person, but I think I have the right to count down to my own wedding, right?
It just goes to show you that time really does fly by...
As of last Thursday, it's seven months until our wedding. Well, actually, it's a little less than that right now. I wish I could just skip ahead in time to June. There is just so much to get done between now and then! Not to mention that I'll be graduating two weeks before the wedding! Yikes!
As some of you may have heard, I was offered the music therapy internship at Cedar Community in West Bend. It's a nursing home/assisted living - the perfect place for me. The only bad thing about it is that it's about 45 minutes from where Ed works. Because I'll be starting my internship after we're married, we've decided to live somewhere in the middle and just commute. Ed really gets the short end of the stick because he'll have to be dealing with rush hour traffic every day. We were talking about that this past week and he was saying that he'll probably have to wake up around 5:30/5:45. I have one thing to say about that - I'm sleeping in ! That's just a little bit to early for me!!!
Another cool thing that I discovered this week is that I can add Ed to the blog and he can post things too. If you see anything about sports popping up you'll know the source. I actually have to give a lot of credit to Ed because he as been absolutely wonderful! I got a really bad case of the flu last week and wound up staying in Milwaukee two extra nights. Ed, being the perfect fiance that he is, took care of me. This doesn't happen very often for us because we live so far away from each other. Dr. Ed nursed me back to health and now I'm all back to normal.
The save-the-dates are in full swing now. Thanks to everyone who has helped out with them! They look great! I'll put a little picture of them at the end of the post. I should be able to focus on wedding details once this semester is over and I have a little bit more free time.